Letter to Alok Tholiya: May 2011

Monday, May 16, 2011

Re: [rti4empowerment] Pl. advise as per law as you have an access to law

So kind of you. Thanks for taking out precious time and giving advise. I shall remain indebtedto you forever.

Alok Tholiya

On Mon, May 16, 2011 at 1:00 PM, Surendera M. Bhanot <surendera@avissoftware.com> wrote:

The only answer to all these that the relation cannot go any further. The immediate swereing of the relation is warranted and all sort of dowry, perjury, breach of trust, cheating, 498a, cases should be filed under various laws and the Sitri Dhan may be claimed with all other consequences. You need to see a consular and a legal expert before it is too late. I am not a legal expert, bur the common sense says that it is the case. You have all the proofs. Now it depends upon you as to see that you want to retain the relatin in a hope that some day he will change or want to give a new lease of life to your daughter.

On Mon, May 16, 2011 at 6:10 AM, Alok Tholiya <atholiya@gmail.com> wrote:

V. Imp. :Pl. send your bill for approval before replying :

If U are unable to then pl. pl. forward me address of those who can reply on above issues or pl. forward this mail to them.

1.       If before marriage groom does not disclose the existing relationship then is that OK?

2.       If parents of boy knew about the very intimate relationship of their son with another girl

Still if they hide the fact and get married their son to another girl is it OK?

3.       If after marriage the husband keeps on texting SMS to the old girl friends, insults the wife, tries to see to see the old girl friend then is that OK?

4.       Can he continue to keep his flat and cupboard full with photos, album, love letters, gifts of his premarital affairs?

5.       If out of frustration of his old relationship hounding him he beats his wife then what law says about it?

6.       When parents of bride/ girl intervene then they are abused and are told that because of your intervention their marriage is being spoilt. Does law say anything about blaming parents of girl who have been cheated, beaten up, banning her from contacting parents telling her to not to visit her parents?

7.       Can girl files an FIR of cheating and misrepresentation, hiding illicit relations which continue post marriage against husband? Against parents in laws? Against common relative who proposed this relation inspite of they knowing his existing deep affair?

8.       What is police supposed to do if girl files an FIR of cheating and misrepresentation, hiding illicit relations which continue post marriage?

9.       Which court this matter will go to a family court or criminal court?

10.   What are the other remedies to a affected girl?

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Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.)
(Real Estate, Insurance, Mutual Funds, Bonds,
Tholiya Marketing and Leasing Pvt. Ltd.
Marigold Party Hall,
Tholiya Bhavan,Next to Regency Hotel,
10th Rd., Santacruz East,
Mumbai 400055
tholiya@hotmail.com
M:9324225699

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Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.)
(Real Estate, Insurance, Mutual Funds, Bonds,
Tholiya Marketing and Leasing Pvt. Ltd.
Marigold Party Hall,
Tholiya Bhavan,Next to Regency Hotel,
10th Rd., Santacruz East,
Mumbai 400055
tholiya@hotmail.com
M:9324225699

• Pl. fwd./ circulate this mail if you think the issues raised here needs wider audience.

• Let us make our city beautiful, disciplined and Loveable.
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• www.digambarjains.com
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Thursday, May 12, 2011

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Dear Alokji,

Badhaiyan,

A very bold thinking for a deep rooted ' Khandani Gundagardi ' in our socaity.

It is much more observed in more educated class - because of the fact that if you are Ladke wale to bat alag karte ho and if you are Ladki wale to alag bat karte ho - dohari dogali bat chal rahi hai.

Everybody of us has to start from his own house and family- just do it , be strong.

What you have decided for you and your family should be repeated by all and evrybody - let us pledge and do it.

Best of luck, I am with you.

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Monday, May 9, 2011

Re: Pl. donate Rs 500/- to my sanstha VNSS if u make PVT trust after this mail / blog

Thanks. But not my 500/- it is for sanstha so sanstha's 500/-

On Mon, May 9, 2011 at 11:03 AM, Jain, Akhil <Akhil.Jain@sc.com> wrote:

Thanks Bhaisaheb. Very helpful. Your Rs 500/- is surely due…..

Thanks & Best Regards,

Akhil Jain

Director

Structured Trade Finance (Corporate Finance) , MENA Region

Standard Chartered Bank

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Address: Standard Chartered Bank,Building 1, 7th Floor, DIFC, P.O Box 999, Dubai, UAE

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From: Alok Tholiya [mailto:atholiya@gmail.com]
Sent: Sunday, May 08, 2011 6:18 PM
To: Jain, Akhil
Subject: Re: Pl. donate Rs 500/- to my sanstha VNSS if u make PVT trust after this mail / blog

It can go on or if specified objective is over then can closed say if u write all balance should be spent on Ridhis marriage and then should be closed then it gets closed or if all beneficiaries decide unanimously then it can be closed.
On Sun, May 8, 2011 at 10:29 AM, Jain, Akhil <Akhil.Jain@sc.com> wrote:

Bhai,

Thanks for this. Just one question. When and how can the Trust be closed?

Thanks & Best Regards,

Akhil Jain

Director

Structured Trade Finance (Corporate Finance) , MENA Region

Standard Chartered Bank

Phone:      +971 4 5083040

Mobile:     +971 50 6766567

Fonenet    +4901 3040

Fax:          +971 4 4282600

Email :      Akhil.Jain@sc.com (Pleases note my new email address)

Address: Standard Chartered Bank,Building 1, 7th Floor, DIFC, P.O Box 999, Dubai, UAE

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From: Alok Tholiya [mailto:atholiya@gmail.com]
Sent: Saturday, May 07, 2011 10:39 AM
To: undisclosed-recipients
Subject: Pl. donate Rs 500/- to my sanstha VNSS if u make PVT trust after this mail / blog

VARISHTHA NAGRIK SEVA SANSTHA

Marigold Hall, Tholiya Bhavan, 10th Road, Next to Regency Hotel,

Near Vakola Highway Signal, Santacruz East, Mumbai – 400 055

Tel. 9324225699 / tholiya@hotmail.com

www.aloktholiys.blogspot.com

How A Private Trust Can Help Your Daughter,Handicapped Dependent or Wife ?

India live in families. We remain concerned about the family members . The question remain foremost important in ones mind what happens after one's demise.In many unfortunate circumstances like below , one's concern is very real……

A daughter or son in the family paralysed and completely handicapped.

Son is busy with his own family and has no time for parents, who will take care of your wife who is suffering from many problems.

A daughter who is married , but son -in-law is not reliable. You fear after you he may sell the property .

You have sister who is very poor and you always helped her. You are concerned about her. You want to help even after your demise.

Creating a private trust can solve the aforesaid concerns of yours. Why ? Because

The property or assets which you will allocate to a trust , shall remain forever with the trust.

During your life time , you yourself can be trustee.

After your demise, the person you have declared in trust deed will become trustee. If you want , there can be more than one trustee.

The trustee can only do what is written in the trust deed. This means that you can actually decide before hand how the income of the trust should be spent on beneficiaries.

For example , suppose Mr X has a house property which is given on rent . Apart from this , Mr X has 10 Lakhs cash. He has two sons , three grandson, one handicapped son, one married daughter. He wants that he should help for studies of his grandsons,handicapped son and married daughter . For this he can create trust in which he will transfer his property and Rs 10 Lakhs of cash. This will become the capital of the trust. In the trust deed , he can set forth that income earned from rent and the interest on Rs 10 Lakhs should be distributed every year in the beginning of the Financial year among his grandson , handicapped son and married daughter in following ratio

                                  Grand sons @ 10 % each.

                                  Handicapped son @ 25 %

                                  Married daughter @ 20 %

                                 Balance with the trust.

During his life time , he himself can be come trustee, but he can prescribe person or a board of person who will become trustee after his death. The trustee will have to function according to the conditions set forth in the trust deed.In this way, at least ,financial help will come to the persons Mr X wants .
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Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.)
(Real Estate, Insurance, Mutual Funds, Bonds,
Tholiya Marketing and Leasing Pvt. Ltd.
Marigold Party Hall,
Tholiya Bhavan,Next to Regency Hotel,
10th Rd., Santacruz East,
Mumbai 400055
tholiya@hotmail.com
M:9324225699

• Pl. fwd./ circulate this mail if you think the issues raised here needs wider audience.

• Let us make our city beautiful, disciplined and Loveable.
Let us handover to our future generation a better place to live in.

• www.digambarjains.com
The matrimonial web site for Digambar Jains

• Also subscribe to my very popular yahoogroup:
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