v.v. mishra ✆ vmishra70@gmail.com
10:18 (11 hours ago)
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On Sat, Nov 19, 2011 at 5:25 PM, Alok Tholiya
wrote:
> Most often it is noted that children have hurt themselves fatally as they
> were copying the TV serials/ games/ movies. Same way many act in the way
> innocently / ignorantly inflicting injury to self / family nera ones cause
> they do not know repercussions/ law and what may follow. The way TV shows
> telgi and other waving when being escorted to courts from jails many get the
> idea that going to jail is like just the other tour. Nay. When activists
> were jailed and they told the experience of just two days then same were
> frightening. Not all can spend in millions to get bail/ luxuries
> unofficially/ parole etc etc.. So !!!???? Is is better to avoid a situation
> / act which will lead to that sorrowful path. But no many want you to be
> strict, fearless, cunning,street smart, braek laws , take short cuts to
> success or prosperity or vilasita. All those who advise like this are those
> who will not go with you to Jail but will incite you to be strict/ lusty/
> shrewd etc.. True friend is one who says sacrifice anything but not peace,
> health and reputation.
>
> Often awareness also helps in putting break to one who knows not to apply
> breaks and meets an accident and causes loss to all accompanying him too.
>
> Therefore I am requesting my dear friend activists to Pl. narrate in writing
> their experience of Jail so others can benefit / get first hand info....my
> mails are always awareness mails which can save one from imminent danger if
> acted upon / corrective steps taken in time...Alok
>
>
>
> My respected activists friends, ( Mr Afzal , Krish and others),
> Jai hind.
>
> My eldest child is 27 now. Believe me in last 27 yrs I have never ever
> slapped them once. But I see incidents of parents beating children often ,
> husbands beating wife is our national character and in some cases children /
> children in law even beat parents as parents at old age make u feel irritate
> due to old age cynical, physical and other conditions..
>
> How I managed to live without beating child? ( besides they too were very
> good)
>
> no wrong exposure to them
> no fulfilling of unnecessary demands
> not showed any double standard
> never used lies before them
> used live examples to make point very clear
> bought good comics,books etc
> sent them to Yoga institute at early age
> my great parents and wife too were and are great inspiration to them and
> have set good examples
> if one of us ( parents or grand ) is telling them anything to mend /
> understand / be careful etc then never other person did take side or advise
> to let go or advised to over look. However since 3-4 years my wife has
> started believing more in modern world , my near ones too and stop me if I
> advise to children. They say u dont know what other children are doing, how
> they live, how they enjoy, how they behave. I fail to understand why compare
> with others. But now since they are given shelter / support by others they
> don't listen to me as much as they used to.If one of the parent takes side
> then as nature would have it they would lean more on the more convenient
> shoulder(and mostly convenient shoulders are easily to take support but bad
> as they never let you stand straight/ right) who is giving cover to hide
> behind. And hence the other parent who gives right advise looks boring,
> unpractical,too bitter etc .In last few years I have lost my influence on
> my children because :
>
> A. Some one at home started undermining my roll. The more I am pulled up
> before them the more I am loosing my respect and influence on my children.
>
> B. Many so called well wishers when meet my children or my wife in my
> absence they criticize my mails/ my attitude, my living, my thinking my
> small earning. My family members fail to understand that only a cheap
> spineless person will criticize a person in absence.My family members fail
> to understand if they are given pleasantries, gifts etc but at the same
> times given a dose against another family members then this host is not
> your well wisher but your enemy who is trying to break your house, who is
> creating a rebel in you for no rhyme or reason.But maturity, commonsense etc
> are most uncommon in this world. If someone was trying to do that to me then
> I will directly put them one is to one before the other person. And why not?
> Let the truth , real grievance, reality come out but then my ways are not
> liked. And finally my family keep listening to such people and slowly
> hypnotic suggestions take over and today it has taken over them.If I want to
> talk to some of my family members then they run away, they get irritated,
> they think I am outdated,they strongly believe I am unsuccessful.
>
> No one realizes that my working is simple, straightforward, adhering to law
> which gives me peace of mind,security to family and name and fame to them.
> If you are not cunning, not shrewd, do not use shortcuts then you may be
> behind by many others in earnings but do not bring harm to self, family, do
> not have to face embarrassment, courts, shame, jail etc.etc. But that peace
> of mind is not appreciated and what is appreciated is showing off which I
> have not been doing and many immature minds think I am failure.
>
> But see where more successful are Azhar, Kalmadi, Kanimozi, Manu Sharma,
> sevral builders who assaulted others to get vacant possession ( Kini case)
> but yet when my dear ones go to some posh places, parties then they feel
> gloomy and ask me how is your business doing ?? One single instance can
> proove a lot : we brought one old building in 1978. In 33 years we have not
> made an inch of unauthorise construction which anyone can come and see.
> Rather tenant / trespassers have.
> We have had never any criminal case against us in 65 years of residence in
> Mumbai.My grand father did not ghave BP or diabetes till he died at the age
> of 99. My father does not have diabetes and BP he has just got @ 88 years of
> age. By the grace of god at 57 I do not have BP / diabetes etc. Why ??
> Nither we have chased money/ nor we have done anything which will have
> telling effect on health ( luckily no hereditary chances also) .
>
> Then why I am writing to you three this mail??
> I want to show to my dear ones success and money is not everything. If u get
> that and loose health or go to jail then what is a use of that success.
>
> And three of you are the best persons to share your expirience of being in
> Jail and what it means. As in the agitation against shameless dictatorial
> Tiwari ( once IAS) and the then State Information commissioner had sent 10
> of you the respected activists to jail. Mr Afzal had narrated me how jails r
> worst then hell described in shastras.
> Those who want to experience hell on earth can just learn from your
> experience and your sharing will help not only those who coax me to be more
> successful like many others may well understand why one must not do any such
> thing which will send them or their near ones or staff to Jail ( Reliance ,
> tata staff is in 2G scam in jail) .
>
> Hope you will all write your experience of Jail though for proud reason (
> like even Annaji was in Jail recently). I feel a documentry must be made and
> warnings on license departments, marriage halls, tax departments must carry
> how wrong doings are injurious to them and their family as jails are more
> injurious then smoking but there are no prewarnings and hundreds go to Jail
> for lavk of awareness which makes them act carelessly.
>
>
> --
> Thanks and Regards,
> Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.)
>
> WARNING :
>
> SMOKERS VISIT TATA CANCER HOSPITAL
> GUTKA / JARDA /MAVA EATERS / CHEWERS VISIT REHABILITATION CENTER STARTED BY
> MANEKCHAND GUTKA NEAR PALGHAR
> ROUGH DRIVERS TALK TO SALMAN KHAN
> DEPRESSION PATIENT IF NOT GETTING TREATED MUST VISIT SHOCK CENTER WHERE
> THOSE WHO DELAYED AND SPOILET CASES ARE TREATED.
> THOSE WHO ARE ACTING IN A WAY WHICH LEADS TO JAIL FIRST VISIT JAIL / TALK TO
> ONE WHO WAS IN JAIL. HURRY CREATES WORRY.
> AND I CAN GO ON BUT ......INSTEAD DON'T ACT DEFIANTLY AND TAKE PATH WHERE
> YOU SACRIFICE SOMETHING TODAY FOR BETTER TOMORROW.
>
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