Pl. narrate in writing your experience of Jail so others can benefit / get first hand info....my mails are always awareness mails which can save one from imminent danger if acted upon...

v.v. mishra ✆ vmishra70@gmail.com 10:18 (11 hours ago) to me Good Morning, I seen the contents of your mail and send more. with regards V.Mishra Advocate -- V.MISHRA & Co. Advocates, Legal,Corporate,Taxation & Finance Consultants Head Office: Manish Chember, 502, 5th Floor, Above Goregaon Postoffice/Axis Bank, Sonawala Road,,Goregaon East, Mumbai 400 063.INDIA Phone:(022) 32679444/ 64128205 Mobile : 91- 9322819511 / 9820158350 Branch Offices: Delhi Off: R-24,Rita Block,IInd Floor, Media Centre,Vikas Marg,Shakarpur, New Delhi- 110 092. Mobile:09350739115. Goa off: Shop No. 26,Phoenix Plaza, Alto Maupsa,Bardez, Goa -403 507. Mobile:09321450982. Pune Off: Rajkamal 2, Opp. Cox & King,Prabhat Road, Near Kelkar Nursing Home, Pune - 411 004. On Sat, Nov 19, 2011 at 5:25 PM, Alok Tholiya wrote: > Most often it is noted that children have hurt themselves fatally as they > were copying the TV serials/ games/ movies. Same way many act in the way > innocently / ignorantly inflicting injury to self / family nera ones cause > they do not know repercussions/ law and what may follow. The way TV shows > telgi and other waving when being escorted to courts from jails many get the > idea that going to jail is like just the other tour. Nay. When activists > were jailed and they told the experience of just two days then same were > frightening. Not all can spend in millions to get bail/ luxuries > unofficially/ parole etc etc.. So !!!???? Is is better to avoid a situation > / act which will lead to that sorrowful path. But no many want you to be > strict, fearless, cunning,street smart, braek laws , take short cuts to > success or prosperity or vilasita. All those who advise like this are those > who will not go with you to Jail but will incite you to be strict/ lusty/ > shrewd etc.. True friend is one who says sacrifice anything but not peace, > health and reputation. > > Often awareness also helps in putting break to one who knows not to apply > breaks and meets an accident and causes loss to all accompanying him too. > > Therefore I am requesting my dear friend activists to Pl. narrate in writing > their experience of Jail so others can benefit / get first hand info....my > mails are always awareness mails which can save one from imminent danger if > acted upon / corrective steps taken in time...Alok > > > > My respected activists friends, ( Mr Afzal , Krish and others), > Jai hind. > > My eldest child is 27 now. Believe me in last 27 yrs I have never ever > slapped them once. But I see incidents of parents beating children often , > husbands beating wife is our national character and in some cases children / > children in law even beat parents as parents at old age make u feel irritate > due to old age cynical, physical and other conditions.. > > How I managed to live without beating child? ( besides they too were very > good) > > no wrong exposure to them > no fulfilling of unnecessary demands > not showed any double standard > never used lies before them > used live examples to make point very clear > bought good comics,books etc > sent them to Yoga institute at early age > my great parents and wife too were and are great inspiration to them and > have set good examples > if one of us ( parents or grand ) is telling them anything to mend / > understand / be careful etc then never other person did take side or advise > to let go or advised to over look. However since 3-4 years my wife has > started believing more in modern world , my near ones too and stop me if I > advise to children. They say u dont know what other children are doing, how > they live, how they enjoy, how they behave. I fail to understand why compare > with others. But now since they are given shelter / support by others they > don't listen to me as much as they used to.If one of the parent takes side > then as nature would have it they would lean more on the more convenient > shoulder(and mostly convenient shoulders are easily to take support but bad > as they never let you stand straight/ right) who is giving cover to hide > behind. And hence the other parent who gives right advise looks boring, > unpractical,too bitter etc .In last few years I have lost my influence on > my children because : > > A. Some one at home started undermining my roll. The more I am pulled up > before them the more I am loosing my respect and influence on my children. > > B. Many so called well wishers when meet my children or my wife in my > absence they criticize my mails/ my attitude, my living, my thinking my > small earning. My family members fail to understand that only a cheap > spineless person will criticize a person in absence.My family members fail > to understand if they are given pleasantries, gifts etc but at the same > times given a dose against another family members then this host is not > your well wisher but your enemy who is trying to break your house, who is > creating a rebel in you for no rhyme or reason.But maturity, commonsense etc > are most uncommon in this world. If someone was trying to do that to me then > I will directly put them one is to one before the other person. And why not? > Let the truth , real grievance, reality come out but then my ways are not > liked. And finally my family keep listening to such people and slowly > hypnotic suggestions take over and today it has taken over them.If I want to > talk to some of my family members then they run away, they get irritated, > they think I am outdated,they strongly believe I am unsuccessful. > > No one realizes that my working is simple, straightforward, adhering to law > which gives me peace of mind,security to family and name and fame to them. > If you are not cunning, not shrewd, do not use shortcuts then you may be > behind by many others in earnings but do not bring harm to self, family, do > not have to face embarrassment, courts, shame, jail etc.etc. But that peace > of mind is not appreciated and what is appreciated is showing off which I > have not been doing and many immature minds think I am failure. > > But see where more successful are Azhar, Kalmadi, Kanimozi, Manu Sharma, > sevral builders who assaulted others to get vacant possession ( Kini case) > but yet when my dear ones go to some posh places, parties then they feel > gloomy and ask me how is your business doing ?? One single instance can > proove a lot : we brought one old building in 1978. In 33 years we have not > made an inch of unauthorise construction which anyone can come and see. > Rather tenant / trespassers have. > We have had never any criminal case against us in 65 years of residence in > Mumbai.My grand father did not ghave BP or diabetes till he died at the age > of 99. My father does not have diabetes and BP he has just got @ 88 years of > age. By the grace of god at 57 I do not have BP / diabetes etc. Why ?? > Nither we have chased money/ nor we have done anything which will have > telling effect on health ( luckily no hereditary chances also) . > > Then why I am writing to you three this mail?? > I want to show to my dear ones success and money is not everything. If u get > that and loose health or go to jail then what is a use of that success. > > And three of you are the best persons to share your expirience of being in > Jail and what it means. As in the agitation against shameless dictatorial > Tiwari ( once IAS) and the then State Information commissioner had sent 10 > of you the respected activists to jail. Mr Afzal had narrated me how jails r > worst then hell described in shastras. > Those who want to experience hell on earth can just learn from your > experience and your sharing will help not only those who coax me to be more > successful like many others may well understand why one must not do any such > thing which will send them or their near ones or staff to Jail ( Reliance , > tata staff is in 2G scam in jail) . > > Hope you will all write your experience of Jail though for proud reason ( > like even Annaji was in Jail recently). I feel a documentry must be made and > warnings on license departments, marriage halls, tax departments must carry > how wrong doings are injurious to them and their family as jails are more > injurious then smoking but there are no prewarnings and hundreds go to Jail > for lavk of awareness which makes them act carelessly. > > > -- > Thanks and Regards, > Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.) > > WARNING : > > SMOKERS VISIT TATA CANCER HOSPITAL > GUTKA / JARDA /MAVA EATERS / CHEWERS VISIT REHABILITATION CENTER STARTED BY > MANEKCHAND GUTKA NEAR PALGHAR > ROUGH DRIVERS TALK TO SALMAN KHAN > DEPRESSION PATIENT IF NOT GETTING TREATED MUST VISIT SHOCK CENTER WHERE > THOSE WHO DELAYED AND SPOILET CASES ARE TREATED. > THOSE WHO ARE ACTING IN A WAY WHICH LEADS TO JAIL FIRST VISIT JAIL / TALK TO > ONE WHO WAS IN JAIL. HURRY CREATES WORRY. > AND I CAN GO ON BUT ......INSTEAD DON'T ACT DEFIANTLY AND TAKE PATH WHERE > YOU SACRIFICE SOMETHING TODAY FOR BETTER TOMORROW. > > >