FW: [cooperation_corruptiongroup] why should public money and national awards be distributed to cricketers/ film stars etc ....Alok

 

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Date: Mon, 11 Apr 2011 12:56:47 +0530
Subject: Re: [cooperation_corruptiongroup] why should public money and national awards be distributed to cricketers/ film stars etc ....Alok
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This happens because the masses recognize the actors and sportsmen due to the coverage by the media. 

 

However, the selfless work done by many NGOs such as ours gets mentioned only if a small space/time slot is available  to the reporters. If we start highlighting the work done by NGOs I'm sure the Govt will find many more candidates worthy of national awards.

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On Sun, Apr 10, 2011 at 11:13 PM, Alok Tholia <tholiya@hotmail.com> wrote:

 

It is shameless and shocking to pay such huge amts, give awards or give such publicity to any one and last to players and filmis/What have they done for commonmen, downtrodden,patients,poor, sufferers,undernourished children,farmers committing suicide,illiteracy,national development. rather they have wasted electricity which is scares, they are the reasons of trillions of man hour lost, spoiling of education of students and spreading menace of gambling,betting, promoting a life style products which cant be afforded by 90% of Indians who r suffering at the hands of politicians and bureacrtas.Like we have chosen a vocation they have chosen cricket or film as a vocation and that's it. If u need any entertainment of that sort go buy a tkt and enjoy but for havens sake do not make them heros/ leaders/sought after ( only mad do it and they r available in lots)and last which they deserve is any award except their own filmi or sports award but not at all a national award which can only be given to one who does sacrifice tan ,man dhan for nation or does something for commonman.It is shame that people forget great people like Vinoba Bhave who did so much for landless labourers and want land / FSI grabbers Shahrukh,Sachin, Amitabha to get Bharat Ratna.
We forget those who built charitable schools,hospitals,various institutions which has helped us day in and day out, those who worked for cancer, HIV, handicapped,sr citizens etc etc and we want sachin to get an award??? What namak harami.We forget those who did so much for us, for community and nation at large and want to reward those playing for self.Let sachin do something for commonman and then we will see whether he desrves and Ratna??
 
Alok Tholiya ....
 
 
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On Thu, Apr 7, 2011 at 4:35 AM, Alok Tholiya <atholiya@gmail.com> wrote:

Alok adds: My god. Deepak bhai ur  mail deserves an award. We Indian (those with money+ego and which r easy to find) feel anything available to us is for over use / misuse / wasting/ showing off be it food, fuel,electricity,water or any other resources ( they unneccessarily burden a peon / junior because he is paid and is available).   In one marriage preparation meeting when the father of girl said I have arranged for 3 sweets and a Icecream then another friend Harish commented friend only 3 sweets ??? And I said 3 are more then enough. But those present liked suggestion of Harish and appreciated him as a very modern, matured and guest friendly and I was brushed aside. Similar suggestions for everything jacked up expenses of this friend from 25 lacs to 40 lacs and finally he sold one of the plot at near Pune to pay for marriahge expenses.   With my limited need ( my office and home is in same building) and budget I have been having only low end Maruti van for last 23 years( though changed every few year). Most friends will suggest Alok, why not go for this make or that. I would promptly reply my budget is Rs. 2 .5 lacs. If rest u can foot then I dont mind changing. But most of the others buy,borrow steal to just keep their false pride.   One of my just married cousine's  in laws faught bitterly fight and demanded for more dowery only because back at home they wanted to have reception.How and why u can sqeeuz arms of bride side to throw a dinner?? I dont know what kind of people those are.   In my case we hosted a good engagement party from our side. So in marriage we did not arrange any dinner as groom side. There were some who commented that what kind of people we are that we did not throw a dinner. And situation was that forget asking we refused the insisting offer of bride side for 2-3 functions and clearly told them that we will have  only one dinner for reception cum marriage and that's it.Not going in to much details of things but my father paid back for a cooking range which my inlaws gave in marriage which they had to accept as he declared he will not eat food cooked on dowry gift. He did not accept any thing for himself and did not allow dowry item to be kept in his room ( even a photo frame).   Yes it was difficult for him to accpet anything from a in laws of son when  this man had  lived all his life with pride of not accpeting any thing from his father since school days (since 9th standard he gave tution and studied : B.com, LLB, ICWA,CAIIB, DBM, CS,Sanskrit Visharad, etc was lecturer in VJTI the then most renowned engineering college, was paper setter and examiner for exams of all india cost and works accountants). But in 2001 a road accident affected his memory and nature badly.   And  went to the extent of refusing to accept anything from his own father that every thing of my grandfather which should have gone to him fell in to my lap like a ripe mango ( share in grand pa's property). While we boast we are landlord of a building in Mumbai he says I am tenant of one room in that building ( as he was before my grand pa bought from the then landlord Brigadier general Umrao singhji) and pays to me rent for his room regularly.    Daddy blatantly refused to see his name being included in  his father's will or anywhere.He does not accept anything from us to even at the age of 88 years. Does not want to bother my staff and wants to do all his work by himeself ( except for last few months as he is not well).In last 30 years I have never gone to make payment for any bills, to do train reservations etc etc but he does not want to trouble my staff easily available to him and even his own staff and did all that by himself till last few months.   But sorry situation is others as I see want to waste power, fuel, food, take help of labourer even if not needed as they think they can afford and there are many who cant afford yet do every mean thing ( like dowery, fraud,over charging,bribe,gifts,manipulations,borrowing,sell spurious, adultarated etc etc..).to just show off. Worst are those youngones who earn not but yet waste as their parents can afford.    Hope we Indians too learn to use / spend only as much as we can with honest means and waste not want not , order not if we cant consume.    But high order is n't it?? As we all want to live in false pride and show off.   On Sun, Mar 20, 2011 at 9:15 AM, Deepak Barodia <barodiads@gmail.com> wrote: Wasting food  !!-----please read its my humble request       Germany is a highly industrialized country. It produces top brands like Benz, BMW, Siemens etc. The nuclear reactor pump is made in a small town in this country. In such a country, many will think its people lead a luxurious life. At least that was my impression before my study trip. When I arrived at Hamburg , my colleagues who work in Hamburg arranged a welcome party for me in a restaurant. As we walked into the restaurant, we noticed that a lot of tables were empty. There was a table where a young couple was having their meal. There were only two dishes and two cans of  beer on the table. I wondered if such simple meal could be romantic, and  whether the girl will leave this stingy guy. There were a few old ladies on another table. When a dish is served, the waiter would distribute the food for them, and they would finish every bit of the food on their plates. We did not pay much attention to them, as we were looking forward to the dishes we ordered. As we were hungry, our local colleague ordered more food for us. As the restaurant was quiet, the food came quite fast. Since there were other activities arranged for us, we did not spend much time dining. When we left, there was still about one third of unconsumed food on the table. When we were leaving the restaurant, we heard someone calling us. We noticed the old ladies in the restaurant were talking about us to the restaurant owner. When they spoke to us in English, we understood that they were unhappy about us wasting so much food. We immediately felt that  they were really being too busybody. "We paid for our food, it is none of your business how much food we left behind," my colleague Gui told the old ladies. The old ladies were furious. One of them immediately took her hand phone out and made a call to someone. After a while, a man in uniform from the Social Security organization arrived. Upon knowing  what the dispute was, he issued us a 50 Mark fine. We all kept quiet. The local colleague took out a 50 Mark note and repeatedly apologized to the officer. The officer told us in a stern voice, "ORDER WHAT YOU CAN CONSUME, MONEY IS YOURS BUT RESOURCES BELONG TO THE SOCIETY. THERE ARE MANY OTHERS IN THE WORLD WHO ARE FACING SHORTAGE OF RESOURCES. YOU HAVE  NO REASON TO WASTE RESOURCES.´" Our face turned red. We all agreed with him in our hearts. The mindset of people of this rich country put all of us to shame. WE REALLY NEED TO REFLECT ON THIS. We are from  country which is not very rich in resources. To save face, we order large quantity and also waste food when we give others a treat. THIS LESSON TAUGHT US A LESSON TO THINK SERIOUSLY ABOUT CHANGING OUR BAD HABITS. My colleague Photostatted the fine ticket and gave a copy to each of us as a souvenir. All of us kept it and pasted on our wall to remind us that we shall never be wasteful.     regards   . __._,_.___

 

 

Message of thanks

Date: Thu, 7 Apr 2011 16:28:32 +0530
From: drajit.singhai08@gmail.com
To: tholiya@hotmail.com

Dear Alokji,

Thank You very much for your efforts & information.
Yes, Of course we are interested in these news alerts & event.
As we have got 5 kids, our one son & four daughters, at our home of marriageable age.
We are also looking forward to the active participation & involvement.

Thank you. Best Regards,

                           - Dr. Ajit Singhai,
                           +91-9422835347.

On Mon, Apr 4, 2011 at 12:24 PM, Alok Tholia <tholiya@hotmail.com> wrote:

This mail is going to data on my hotmail under Jain category. PL. reply if u r not interested in such mails. Alok...

 

also register them on my free web site for matrimonial : digambarjains.com

Thanks for nice words of encouragement and for feedback. However if u had filled up form for ur children then same would have appeared in direcory and many would have been contacting you.
 
You should also register them on my free web site for matrimonial : digambarjains.com
 
 
 
Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya

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Date: Thu, 7 Apr 2011 19:50:13 +0530
From: dagade.bharat@gmail.com
To: tholiya@hotmail.com

sir

ihave attended the parichaya sammelan on date  i also meet to along withsri bahubali gangwal. aurangabad. i have purchased the  book by paying rs/- 200/-

i have attended the sammelan first time . & the experince is good also arrangment is

fine . now i am searching for suitable match for son/daugter

thanks for your kind  information

jai jinendra

 

bharat dagada

gajpanth nagar .mhasrul nasik

FW: delete if u r not interested in news abt Dig Jain parichaySammelan...Alok

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Subject: Re: delete if u r not interested in news abt Dig Jain parichaySammelan...Alok
To: tholiya@hotmail.com
From: kalechetan@gmail.com
Date: Mon, 4 Apr 2011 08:55:04 +0000

Congratulations for the event Uncle

Regards,
Chetan Kale
+91 9004089934

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Fwd: 7 th Yuvak yuvati parichay sammelan

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From: Ashok Jain <ashokjain@akar.co.in>
Date: Mon, Apr 4, 2011 at 11:38 AM
Subject: RE: 7 th Yuvak yuvati parichay sammelan
To: Alok Tholiya <atholiya@gmail.com>

Dear Alokji,

You efforts to contribute ur time and energy, wisdom  in all walk of social spectrum are laudable. Keep them up. all the very best and good luck for the success of all ur endeavour to contribute to enhance the quality life of society.

Warm regards

Ashok jain,

From: Alok Tholiya [mailto:atholiya@gmail.com]
Sent: 04 April 2011 11:24
To: undisclosed-recipients:
Subject: 7 th Yuvak yuvati parichay sammelan

SHRI MUMBAI DIGAMBAR JAIN SEVA SAMITI

Shri Kailash Chabra, President, Shri Mumbai Digambar Jain Seva Samiti, 2/215,Ashoka Shopping center, 2^nd floor, L.T. Marg, Mumbai 400001.tel no. 22625283/ 9324316897/ tholiya@hotmail.com

 www.digambarjains.com
The only authentic free matrimonial web site for Digambar Jains

Dear Dig Jains,

Jai Jinendra.

7 years back I voiced my urge to start Parichay sammelan in Mumbai for Digambar Jain marriageable age youth. Shri S P Jain and Padamji Kala were the two persons who extended full support and thus this Parichay sammelan came to being. For 6 years I was the organizer and this year 2011 April Shri Niranjan Bohra was organizer.

Initially we had to put in lot of efforts and had several difficulties and shortage of funds and man power and participants. Now we are getting all the help from the samaj and from 150 participants we had 550 this year and most of them highly qualified and well placed too from even who's who families.

Every participant was given a kit, directory, very delicious breakfast and lunch in air-conditioned hall with lots of parking available nearby.

Next year we are planning to hold same at very high level in bigger hall.

Those who have registered and paid Rs. 250/- but could not collect the directory will get so by courier free of charge within a month.

Those who have not paid but still want directory can do so by paying Rs. 200/- by cheque in favor of

" Shri Mumbai Digambar Jain Seva Samiti "

And courier same to : Shri Kailash Chabra, President, Shri Mumbai Digambar Jain Seva Samiti, 2/215,Ashoka Shopping center, 2^nd floor, L.T. Marg, Mumbai 400001.tel no. 22625283/ 9324316897/ tholiya@hotmail.com

This programme has been successful due to untiring efforts of many but only few are named here due to space constraints:

1.       Shri Kailash Chabra

2.       Dr Subhash Chandiwal

3.       Shri Nirmal jain Tikamgadh

4.       Shri Kamal Gangawal

5.       Shri D P jain

6.       Shri Ashok Gangawal

7.       Generous donors/ advertisers

Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya

FW: mahabharat

From: anil <krishnabuilders@gmail.com>
To: Mr Alok Tholiya <tholiya@yahoo.com>
Sent: Saturday, 2 April 2011 8:03 AM
Subject: Re: mahabharat

Alok Bhaiya ,

very good morning .

i do appreciate and give my consent as to why waste time for people playing for money  .

i am really interested in activities mentioned by you which can benefit our society.

kindly let me know about such activities in which i can participate  

On 2 April 2011 07:49, Mr Alok Tholiya <tholiya@yahoo.com> wrote:

Why waste time on people playing for money. Let us talk of those who create school, hospital, water hut etc from which we benefit daily.

Thanks and Regards,Alok Tholiya (S.E.O)