Monday, August 6, 2012

experience that you have shared

From:Prashant Jain (prashant.jain@zensar.com)
Sent: 06 August 2012 10:40AM
To: Alok Tholia (tholiya@hotmail.com)
Cc: prashant1811@gmail.com (prashant1811@gmail.com)
 
Alok,
 
I like your mail and the experience that you have shared. Its really 
motivating especially for the person like me.
But problem with me is that my short comings I never be able o control 
(at least I knew them).
Anger management and short temperedness is my drawback.
 
I will try to mend myself.
Wish your experience help me.
 
One request, please replace my company's id with personal id i.e. 
prashant1811@gmail.com
 
Regards,
Prashant Jain
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Sunday, August 5, 2012

Yes you can. But only if you decide to come out of cacoon

Life as it is 1( fight your weakness) : Someone coxed me to speak on Gandhi Jayanti Day when I was in 10Th standard.
I fumbled miserably and cud hardly speak few words and left the stage. The compere one Bahadur singh nepali further humiliated me by saying Ata jata kuch nahi aur chale aate hein mic per ki logo ko impress karange but phir kahate hain eisa ho gay , vaisa ho gaya are mera to kachara ho gaya.
I talked to my daddy on this. He advised me to stand opposite mirror and speak from written speeches. I somewhat picked up.In first year of my college I became group leader of several college associaations. And went on to become President of Jaycees youth club, Leos, Lions, etc etc... By this age I must have spoken to audience of 5 to 15000 and for a minute to few hours at a stretch on varied topics. I have spoken in street meetings, political meetings, meetings of proffessionls, meetings in 5 stars etc etc. I have conducted several seminars, discourses, leadership training programmes etc. I am not a very popular speaker (due to my tone and harsh language but is still sought after.
Humiliation and criticism are blessings for me.
NB: Join coaching, training,courses, etc.
Life as it is 2(use resources to overcome difficulties): Earlier I use to pronounce Sha as sa. Some of the friends started teasing me. I realised I have to improve.And after lot of practice and due to the efforts and coaching of my dear friend Manohar krishna Pandit I did pick up correct pronounciation.
NB: Go to speech therepist,plastic surgeon,personality developing institute, etc to overcome inabilities.
Life as it is 3: Same was with English. We speak Hindi at home and were sent to 5 KM away to Hindi school though English schools were in our vicinity. I picked up English in a very interesting style. My daddy asked me to memorise atleast one new word daily to be picked up while on way to school from hoardings,boards, name plates , banners etc on way. Besides he subscribed to English edition of Indrajal comics published by Times. One may evade English text books but can't miss reading English comics.
Then came issue of friends and connections.
NB: There r cheap ways availble around us to over come shortcoming and shine out.
Life as it is 4: Bury the darkside of your personality: I daily hear we won't go to so and so place or so and so group etc as no one speaks to us or no one knows us.
I would react by saying you did not speak to them, you did not introduce yourself to them. Therefore from same crowd many felt lonely and left out. So it is never an issue that you are alone but it is an issue that you have chosen to be alone/ secluded/ lonely/cut off.
And if u hv complex of any kind that they r more monied. or more sought after then that is an easiest thing to counter. Simple, very simple. Due to my social work and activism I was appointed Special Executive Magistrate when I was just 21 years of age. So people started calling me to gatherings and were proudly introducung me to their gang. I have a very bad voice, very bad at playing musical instrments, very bad in sports and on topics of sports and films which used to be and r still favourite time pass in trains and picnics and informal gatherings. So I learnt cracking jokes. So while I was poor participant in group singing/ antakshari but I was popular for lighter moments and so also for hosting/ comparing/ conducting show/ games etc.
So you see not always looks or money matters. You can make yourself popular / liked/ sought after by improving in talent/ hobbies etc...
Life as it is : Be creative and use resources with large heart as God has given same for you to share: Often there r people around us who have habit of only chasing celebrities or monied. But who does these who's who/ celebrities chase?? These celebrities and others respect those who have awnsers to lot of problems which keep cropping up in everyones life. So become awnser to atleast few of the issues of your near and dear ones and by helping them become part of their family/ close knit circle.
Due to road accident of my father and age of my father and mother our movement to social life were some what restricted. Late beloved friend Dr J V Bhatt advised me to make them member of a senior citizens group at Santacruz West. I attended one meeting for sake of exposure. At my young age I had even arranged All India Conferences not to mention having run so many other organisations. LO! what I find, it was very easy to run a senior citizens group at my place. And if god has been kind enough to give me something so librally (place in city like Mumbai) then why not make best use of same. http://marigoldhall.blogspot.in/
About 8 years back I started senior citizens group known as Varishtha Nagrik Seva Sanstha and last Friday was our 208Th meeting. http://varishthanagrik.blogspot.in/
About three years back I suffered a bout of depression. While I was doing OK due to medication but still felt need to have a group of fun and frolic making friends. I went with my wife to friends like Shri Suresh Chabra, Shri Narendra Paliwal and others and gave the idea of having homogenous group of jain members for sake of fun , food and picnic and yatras. Idea mooted by us is a now a well sought after group of like minded members alligned closer then family members.
Make life happy and enjoy : Remember a mean, criminal minded, shy, snatcher of happiness of others can not enjoy life and only lives in Ahnkar which explodes with one major bad incidence in life
So friends, especially teens and retired, take own initiative to rise, develop personality, develop hooner (talent) and develop friend circle and group of well wishers. Do not wait for right time, right people or others to take initiative, others to spend money. Take first step ...not today... but just now... start with sending sms on friendship day....invite one senior citizen or not so successful old friend Sudama (Play Krishna) over a cup of tea…..
Happy friendship day to you all...
NB: Hooner was my dadji’s favorite word and he always emphasised on concentratinga nd developing hooner.
I wanted to add some memorable phots like playing cricket with Helen ( top film star of yester years and my favorite film actress) ( match played for Koyana flood releif fund), receiving award from Police commissioner, GM MTNL, with leaders , with top proffessional etc.. and not for boasting but to show that a simple ordinary person from a medicer family cud achieve something so you can achieve much more.
Alok Tholiya
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Monday, July 30, 2012

CONTEMPT OF COURT: THE NEED FOR A FRESH LOOK

CONTEMPT OF COURT: THE NEED FOR A FRESH LOOK.........Thanks to a unkon holy soul who sent me this ... If u r not interested then just delete‏
Dear Alokji, Thanks for sharing this article, it is quite informative. Thanks, Sunil.
To Alok Tholia
From:Sunil Ahya (sunilahya@gmail.com)
Sent: 30 July 2012 18:33PM
To: Alok Tholia (tholiya@hotmail.com)
Dear Alokji,

Thanks for sharing this article, it is quite informative.

Thanks,

Sunil.

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Thanks for sharing article of landlord vs tenants


Janhit Manch  janhitmanch@gmail.com
11:00 AM (21 hours ago)
to me
Good. I want to use the High Court order in our upcoming brochure. Can you mail me?
Bhagvanji



sanjay sanghvi  sanghvis123@hotmail.com
12:06 PM (20 hours ago)
to me
Hi Alokji,

Thanks for sharing  article of landlord vs tenants

Regards,

Sanjay


On Mon, Jul 23, 2012 at 3:29 PM, Pratik Tholiya <ptholiya@yahoo.com> wrote:
Landlord wins 42-yr-old battle against tenant
Mar 24, 2011, 01.28AM IST TNNSwati Deshpande ]

MUMBAI: The dispute had landed in the small causes court in the same year that Neil Armstrong walked on the moon. Four rounds and over four decades of litigation later, the trip finally ended in a victory for a Bandra landlord in an eviction battle against a tenant.

A few weeks ago, an appeal bench of S D Darne and A K Shah of the small causes court confirmed a 2010 eviction order. The bench held that the landlords-Clarence Fernandes, Ralph Fernandes and four other brothers, two of whom died since the suit was originally filed-had made out a case of their bona fide requirement and to recover the tenanted 850 sq ft flat in the three-storey building that their father built. The Fernandes family had launched the "lawful attempts" to get back their ancestral premises in 1969, but their victory may not translate into a recovery of premises just yet.

In November 2010, the small causes trial judge passed an eviction decree against the tenants occupying a first-floor flat in Charlesville House in Bandra (W). The tenants- widow of the original tenant, Yasmin Badshah, her son Shahid Badshah and daughter-in-law Tasreen Khan-sought a stay. The judges granted a two-month stay on the eviction so that the tenants could challenge the order in the Bombay high court.

The landlords and other members of their family, through their lawyers Divyakant Mehta and MP Vashi, argued that they needed the flat so that the brothers could stay close to their mother.

The Bombay Rent Act allows a landlord to claim recovery for his genuine need.

In this case, the landlords got part reprieve in 1975. In 1976, the tenants went in appeal and lost. The matter went to HC in 1988 and both sides agreed to go for a re-trial before the small causes court. The battle started afresh and ended in 2011 with the court ruling in the landlords' favour. The tenants argued that they couldn't find alternative accommodation, adding that the landlords were rich and could afford to live elsewhere.

Holding that evidence during trial showed that Shahid and his wife were persons of "good means and financial resources and could easily get premises of their choice, at least on rent", the judges said the tenants, if evicted, would not suffer more hardships than the landlords.
The fact that the landlord is affluent is of little consequence if he proves, as was done in this case, that his need for the premises is genuine, said the court. "Only because a landlord is rich, a decree of recovery cannot be refused," the court said. 


Friday, July 6, 2012

Alok does PHD and shares with all for their benefit...


Alok does PHD and shares with all for their benefit.....Pl. send ur views on this mail‏
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Ravindranath Ns 
Jun 11
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Wonderful statement and analisation.

Ravindranath


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  • Alok does PHD and shares with all for their benefit.....Pl. send ur views on this mail‏



    Let donkey ( CEO) work for you and carry ur load and yet give master what he would have

 never got without this donkey.....learning to share .......and reaching top ....and making  dreams 
reality.......share 5% mantra  ......( and get 95% otherwise unrealisable ) ..Alok

What they dont teach in Havard:
How to start branch after branch:
How to start another unit/ franchise/ agents/ brokers :
How to start encashing on idle / unutilised (normally ancestral property) strength/ resources/ 
property etc.:
How to get the work done:
How to make others dance to ur tune: ............one simple awnser ....SHARE  SHARE AND 
SHARE and ACT ACT & ACT IMMEDIATELY AS no one has seen tomorrow.

To,

My dear all,
Namaskar.

I m not competent to offer advise / or talk about modern corporate working (neither u have asked me to)
 but yet I want to share few things as seen by me:
 Negative side:
You shud have lots of guts, influence, fearlessness ( of law and god) , be non approachable 
( have PA’s, VP’s, whole time directors) , make govt officials in ministries , ministers etc ur 
shreholders and then:
1.Get bank loan
2.get huge pc of  land
3. Get licences in ziffi ( a poor cobbler will take few yrs to get his licence )
4. Get ( steal) water, power etc.
5. Break rules, evade excise, sales tax, Income tax etc etc

But finally bring co. to profit. Once there is a profit then fool investors, cheat brokers will 
ensure that ur scripts goes up and up.

Then plan another venture where there is a profit of above 150%. Hire one CEO. Put him to  
task. He fails then replace and he succeeds then go and put another industry.

Keep adding on and just look in to balance sheet of each industry on quarterly basis and 
that’s it . If  it is in red it is funeral of its CEO/ M.M., VP, and shareholders etc and if it brings 
profit then go ahead acquire another industry / project / ( govt is out to give all projects to
 handful of industrialists whether they have know how or experience or not) ( they in turn tie up
 with foreign companies by adding their cost ) ( if the project was given to directly to foreign
 good company then cost cud be 50% down). But then they may or may not be able to bribe 
as much as Indian cos wud by compromising with quality, delivery time, they will be able to
 revise quotation with the bribe several times and see the quality of project : santacruz east 
sky walk has several type of mismatching tile, they r slippery . so no consideration of beauty,
 grace has been kept and tiles r not anti skid so in monsoon, etc old, weak, women, children r
 slipping and falling. But on the other hand these industrialists r making house from 100 cr to
 1600 crore ( Ambani). They r in IPL, Horse race , foot Ball and every other thing. See the
 houses of ministers and bureaucrats which r shining like gold, forget tiles every other thing is 
in good taste, aesthetic, interiors of class but public projects r in dirty design and looks. And 
then lights in subways don’t work, their favourite voters from UP , Bihar keep spitting 
everywhere and no law is made to stop this infectious diseases spreading dirty habits.

So to sum up : U can make money : rise high : if u can pocket ministers , officers 
and fool investors.

The CEO : CEO thinks he is the boss but he is the slave of 24 hours of the company
 and is supposed to give results or be out.

Share holders: Lot of money will be syphoned out, but balance sheet will be attractive 
and further is 4 word advise by sms or email brokers will give So called advise ( tip) 
and u will invest blindly ( out of lust) and buy manipulated share.And keep them in locker and sleep.

Banks and land:   Not for poor, not for needy, but for those who can give rosy
 projects, make who’s who partner, can bribe they will get loans at lower rate 
and land for peanut price.

Licences: U will not get even death certificate for months without bribing and several visits, 
u will not get death body released form municipal morgue without money, u will not get to 
register FIR without hours of harassment and bribe , U will not get justice from Indian courts
 for decades, it took 6 months and 20000/- bribe for me to get one water connection of ½ ’’
 but these industrialists get biggest NOC’s , licences, permissions, connections  in seconds 
and on their table . How?? Their projects r operational in a year but a small man will run 
everywhere personally but no permission comes in hand for years . Why???

Because the Indian Industry runs on different theory which is not taught in Havard.

POSITIVE SIDE:

But then Kutchi Gujrati samaj has been following the above appoint CEO principle
 very successfully ( though most of their business runs successfully on tax evasion 
like grocery, electrical, hardware, food, clothing, garment , utensils, crockery, 
stationary, xerox, etc etc  where they never issue any bill , never sell any thing 
with proper price printed, quality assured but they thrive).
So coming back to their using appoint CEO feature: They have a very good 
network with in community. Community takes care of old, suffering, sick,
 students etc.. So their own people do not cheat the employer easily from 
own community. When some one is running a business of retail nature then
 normally they r not able to expand easily as they r stuck up on their own cash
 counter and controlling staff and stocks . But when a kutchi is running one  
business successfully then he does not stop there. He picks up one of his
 good own community staff and makes him a working partner and starts another 
shop. And then next and then next. So I have seen Kutchis and to some extent 
godvalia marwaris and shettys in hotel industry grow faster then others as they
 open new out lets / branches depending on working partner which in new
 management we call CEO. Is in’t it a fine and useful  idea. But u shud have 
control over the working partner / CEO who shud not deceive and achieve
 in time frame ur objectives. Best thing in present environment is have clear 
cut black and white  MOU/ target/ profit sharing/ goals so nothing is left to 
chances, misinterpretation, feud, confusion etc.

Say there is a group of brothers with a family owned property. All may be 
busy in some other business activity and the precious piece of land may be 
lying neglected or may be gulped by land sharks or may one day go down 
the drain due to fight in 3rd / 4 rth generation on ancestral property with 
different objectives, aims , aspirations etc..
In such a case all busy co-owners can appoint a CEO with clear but wide 
powers and fixed responsibilities so in set period a ambitious project comes up. 
IF it works out then same efforts can be continued by making it a regular joint business.
 Or they can part with the fruits of the unutilised piece of land on which there r many eyes set.

But is is not easy for most. Not all want to share the profits and in turn loose 
what they can get out of untouched project themselves / opportunity lost is lost. 
But there r most people with the attitude that main karun bhi nahi and karne bhi 
nahi duuun ( nither I will do or I will let u / other co-owners do). Main kar bhi 
nahi sakta lekin mein karne bhi nahi dena chahta ( I know I have no time, no skill, 
no resources to do but yes I will also not let other person do). Such people wait for 
destiny and prey that apple should fall on  their lap/ jholi. Yes it may one day fall
 but if by chance u get a nap and others can take away that apple which was 
about to fall in ur jholi and for which u have been waiting for long. So the
 brilliant r those who employ CEO who risks his life and climbs the tree who 
plucks all the fruits, secures them , gives you as and when u want them and for 
all these services he expects a small share from ur orchid. It is up to u to decide 
whether u want to be without assured returns in ur own life time or u want to share
 the fruits and happiness of  success shared .

 
Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.),Marigold Hall,

Thursday, June 21, 2012

The same would be helpful


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LASER IMPREZ 
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Thanks Alokji for your forward which is very much in time for my daughter’s loan which has been already granted by cradila-hdfc.
The same  would be helpful for getting some interest concession.

A Jain

From: Alok Tholiya [mailto:atholiya@gmail.com]
Sent: Thursday, June 21, 2012 6:34 AM
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