Friday, June 17, 2011

Story repeatedly told by my father and my prayer..READ AND RETURN TO ME

Story repeatedly told by my father when we were young: on. Judge asked a thief to seek his last wish as Judge just announced against him capital punishment. The thief could ask anything but requested permission to take his mother in arms for last time. Judge and all others felt much moved. Mother was immediately called. Everyone was waiting to see the emotional moment in court when son will see his mother last time. But to the great shock of everyone this young man bit her ear and nose the moment the mother came near. Immediately police separated them Silence was restored with great difficulty.

Judge angrily asked thief the reason of this insane step? He calmly replied , Lord had my mother been strict when I stole a eraser in school of my classmate then this day would not have come. But instead of being strict on my first but seemingly small mistake she ignored it. As a result I started doing bigger lifting and then yet bigger and then started dacoitee. And in this case the house owner woke up suddenly when I was trying to loot his house and in the fear of getting caught I stabbed him. And now I am on way to phansi/ about to be hanged. My mother did not play a roll of responsible guardian who should ensure that their wards do not go astray / off path. Sir, she deserved it. I am going to be hanged at this young age only because I was let loose and I never knew my personality is developing negatively in the dark room of my house.

Friends, we ought to play a roll of light house and show a right path to our young ones. Even if at times we sound bitter / strict but if not then one day we will repent for being responsible for spoiling their youth and career and family!!!


Each
and everyone one of us are going through tough
times right
now,
but God is getting ready
to
bless those who wish to and Keep the faith.

My
instructions were to pick
few people that
I
wanted God
to
bless, and I picked you.

Please
pass this to at least
(4)
people you want to be blessed
And
a copy back to me.
This
prayer is powerful, and

Prayer
is one of the best gifts
we receive... There is no cost but a lot of rewards. We always believe that others are responsible for our miseries. Nay!! This prayer is based on the fact of Jain Karma theory which makes us responsible to act and responsibly to lead life happily. It does not allow you to pass the buck of your sins and makes you own up your own act.
Let's
continue to pray
for self purification.


The
prayer:

 




Father,
I ask you to bless me
my friends, relatives and those for
whom
I care deeply, who are reading this right
now.

I assure you my god that I shall never ever indulge in such activity which will snatch away sleep of my near and dear ones and cause them even slightest of pain or hurt.
Holy Spirit,
I
ask
you
to minister to their spirit
at
this very moment. Where
there
is pain, give them
peace
and Mercy.
Where there is doubt,
release a renewed confidence through your grace and I assure I will do everything and will rebuild my reputation.

Teach the kindness to me, replace my false pride and let me do more and more good deed. Almighty teach me benefits of patience, humbleness and sweetness, give true meaning of responsible life towards family, friends and society.

Where there is need, I ask you to fulfill my needs.
Bless my home, family with love and understanding and
health and happiness. I give more importance to above and hence not suggesting finances which don't make a happy family but honesty, responsibility, togetherness does.

Give everyone including me sanity to be responsible so that peace and happiness of family returns and remains intact.

Oh God keep all those black shadows away from me who do not prevent me from committing wrong, do not inspire me to remain truthful, do not enforce on me to remain disciplined in the eyes of law, society and all concerned. God vanish such well-wishers (???) who have no courage to keep me on right path and do not threaten to leave me even if I do what a learned, respectable person from a good family would not dare to even think.

God give me such friends who will forewarn me and save me from loosing face or getting punished. God give me friends who will work for my long term happiness, safety and prestige and not for pushing me behind...

I know friends are available in dozens who want party sharty but there r hardly any true but bitter friend who know that one of my wrong move will destroy the sleep and happiness of my family, my beloved, my siblings, my elders and others with me. Thus I beg for friends and well-wishers are tough and strict with me.

God is a


Precious name only if it helps you and me to remain out of miseries and sufferings.

Amen.

(If
the Lord lays upon your
heart
to send this to
more
than
four people, you are truly
blessed).

Monday, June 13, 2011

Dont earn Bad karma's ...my advise to those who have ....Alok


My reply to BX Ghosh and all others blessed by almighty but request to not to block supplies of poor...Alok

dear All,
Namaskar. Pl. pl. pl. understand that there r millions of children / youth in my country called India (enslaved by politicians and bureaucrats for last 60 yrs) who dont get food, water, shelter. They die of undernourishment. If u have a spoilt toy to be thrown in bin then pl. send me and i have millions of toddlers who have never seen them and wud like to get one old and see smile on their face. If u have a pair of sleepers to be thrown then pl. send me as here in my city and around in Adivasi areas there r millions walking barefoot in 50 degree temperature, or walking on rough surfaces and so on....

I am not surprised by people commenting these way that our youth want the latest and best yes cause u have seen only ur youth brought up in that environment. But India exists elsewhere too.

I welcome to move to introduce the cheap comp for that segment of my brother and sisters. There r some who will get exposure to some technology and dont try to deprive them. My only concern as always is
1. Whether ordered and quantity paid for will be delivered?
2.Whether it will be really reaching the needy or will be sold in black?
3. whether officers in charge will harass / delay/ make them wait for months and then ask for bribe to release the same. etc etc ..

But there r definitely millions who need them and atleast few will get them.

I wud appeal to u all blessed if u have usable old clothes, household items, footwear, books, toys,pc etc etc instead of throwing or giving it scrap merchant donate to poor / adivasies etc.. If u cant find such orgs and if convenient then send me those items ( in usable/ clean conditions) and I will distribute nr Virar adivasi backward areas and send you photo of same.

And for havens sake do ur best for ur children as u can but do not enter bad karma by blocking the supplies of por / have nots. Rather encourage, and if means permit take charge of such distribution so it is not misused by officers.

Alok Tholiya
atholiya@gmail.com
www.aloktholiys.blogspot.com
+919324225699

--- In nationalnetworkforindia1@yahoogroups.com, Satish Jha <satish.jha@...> wrote:
>
> For those who care: not a single Android PDA is priced below $499. The
> average price of what is in demand is about $699 plus taxes and essential
> accessories.. These devices are for communication and consumption. Not for
> learning.
>
> Incidentally, while India can boast of $700 cell phone connections, the US
> students are on to the PDAs. Cell phones don't have a market anymore. In
> India, PDA market may not be larger than 1 million a year against $200
> million cell phones lines added last year. (someone may bring precision to
> the data here). In the US market, PDAs are more than half the market..
> Effectively leaving the gap where it has been in the case of toilets or
> drinking water or sanitation or calorie intake or whatever criteria one may
> adopt.. give or take some, the story is similar..
>
> But it does not have to be. All it requires it a simple thought.. where are
> we headed.. what will get us there.. rather than we cannot do this or we
> cannot do that..
>
> These devices are not going to be sold for $49 just yet.
>
> I will give one example:
>
> I purchased an AT&T cell phone in NY in 1994 for $800
> Then in India in 1996: $800
> Another Nokia 9000 in 1998: $800
> Blackberry: 2004: $800
> iPhone 2006: $800
> Blackberry: 2008: $800
> Blackberry: 2010: $800
> Android: HTC AT&T: $699++: abt $800
> iPhone 2011: $699 ++ abt $800
>
> Not counting the change, its about the same price.
>
> Its similar curve for the laptop, around $2000 for a comparable laptop -
> 1988 onwards..
>
> In nominal terms, prices have remained about the same while capabilities of
> these instruments continues to improve and so does our need.
>
> Anything that does not offer value for nothing is too expensive. Anything
> that offers value for whatever price one pays is cheap.
>
>
> On Mon, Jun 13, 2011 at 10:12 PM, Satyajit Roy <satyajit_roy@...>wrote:
>
> >
> >
> > $49 Tablet based on Android should be compatible with Apps being created in
> > the Google App Store. https://market.android.com/
> > They do not yet have the large base as the Ipad today, as it started later,
> > but as Android devices become more popular worldwide, apps will become
> > available on both devices. IMHO, just as Windows beat Apple, due to its
> > closed nature and cost, android devices is the way of the global future :)
> >
> > ------------------------------
> > To: IIT-Global-DiscussionGroup@yahoogroups.com
> > From: bxghosh@...
> > Date: Mon, 13 Jun 2011 09:59:31 +0530
> > Subject: Re: IIT Global Discussion Group Govt to begin field trial of
> > low-cost computer soon: Cost Rs 4772+ Rs 1500= Rs 6272 per browser tablet
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > If Mr. Kannan is reading this, can you please spell out the specifications
> > of the $35 (now $49+) tablet (laptop?), just to prove Mr. Jha wrong? If you
> > can't, then we will have to assume that Mr. Jha is right and Mr. Sinha and
> > his team is taking the HRD minister and the country for a ride.
> >
> > I have a simple question. Will this tablet of yours be better than the
> > ipad2, or the plethora of tablets coming out in the market in terms of
> > hardware capability and software support (and portability)? I would
> > appreciate an unequivocal YES or NO answer (with of course the specs backing
> > it).
> >
> > If it is not, then why is the nation spending so much money behind it?
> > Todays youth has no patience for technology which is two years old (let
> > alone 10 or 20 that your device seems to be) with curtailed or limited power
> > and utility. They will reject your offering like so much junk!
> >
> > You would have done much better to use the Government's bargaining power to
> > buy an already established tablet at a substantial discount!
> >
> > Cheers!
> >
>

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Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.)
(Real Estate, Insurance, Mutual Funds, Bonds,
Tholiya Marketing and Leasing Pvt. Ltd.
Marigold Party Hall,
Tholiya Bhavan,Next to Regency Hotel,
10th Rd., Santacruz East,
Mumbai 400055
tholiya@hotmail.com
M:9324225699



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Re: Cost audit

And  I have done it with a confidence that u will help daddy in this audit. Pl. coordinate with him now. Alok

On Sun, Jun 12, 2011 at 8:51 PM, Pratima Gangwal <capratima@hotmail.com> wrote:
  I can not stop myself form appreciating  d act of urs .Pl Accept My sincere appreciation 







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From: atholiya@gmail.com
Date: Sat, 11 Jun 2011 19:28:16 +0530
Subject: Re: Cost audit
To: rss@bpml.in
CC: vipul.shah@bkt-tires.com

Respected Uncle,
Namaskar.

I have no words to express to you all who are so human and so compassionate that I have hardly seen such people. I know my request was unreasonable but.... u know.

I think you have given some lease of life filled with love and affection and will go a long way in history of relationship.
Pl. convey to Hon. board deep gratitude and respect for their gesture of love and human consideration before which no man made rules work.

I will send those letters as advised which have been prepared by daddy and given to me but I had no guts to send.

One last request pl. never tell him that I had written any letter as he has never allowed me to promote him and neither he has promoted my business. So I don't want him to loose his self respect at this fag end of life.

I remember my commitment 1. Always available for any help as and when called upon.
2. Will pay back the fees given to him for just keeping him motivated and busy on grounds as above. Money was not the criteria as you know.

My folded hand thanks,

Sincerely yours,


Alok Tholiya
 

On Sat, Jun 11, 2011 at 3:42 PM, Radheyshyam Sharma <rss@bpml.in> wrote:

Dear Alokji,

Ref. to your email , we would like to inform you that we have gone through the facts given by your good self and our long association with shri B L Tholia ji, discussed the matter of re-appointment of M/s Tholia & Associates with our board of directors and please to inform you that our board have considered  the request.

This is for your information with a request to sent a letter U/S 224 of reappointment of Cost auditor.

For Balkrishna paper mills ltd

R S Sharma

.

 

From: Alok Tholiya [mailto:atholiya@gmail.com]
Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:32 PM
To: Shri R A Sharmaji
Subject: Re: Cost audit

 

Respected Uncle,
Namaskar.

I am not in a position to show my deep respect and gratitude towards you, and your company which has unequivocally remained faithful , respectful and friendly to their old associate and cost auditors Shri B.L. Tholiya my daddy. like he is rare even your co. and yourself are rare in this materialistic world. In present times people only have association (including  marriage and when it comes to looking after Sr. citizen of family come) till convenience. No sooner they start causing difficulties they are discarded but for your company. 

Incidentally daddy has been one person who would go out of way to remain associated with old ones be it old serving barber to old serving staff to his old father to his old friends and even distant relatives. He is one man who would go to his younger brothers bedside on every Sunday for years when most other forgot him as he was on bed for 7 yrs and ailing under Parkinson and paralysis.
I know he did not get fees from Clients like Bradbury Mills etc. as they were in bad financial condition but he never gave up them and did their work with same zeal.

But like everyone has some minus point. He too has one. That is he fails to accept that he is not able to function.
I know most of his clients one by one left him as he could not do justice to his work as he met with a road accident  and had head injury, brain hemorrhage  and loss of memory.But yours is one of the company which continued to be associated with him with the  result  that he recovered to a great extent and was active for last 11 years inspite of very bad accident.The blessings and best wishes will keep showering all the good luck for many generations of your group and those who are at the helms of affair of your esteemed company.

This time again as he has fallen sick he is unable to cop up. He simply cant. But yet he is unable to accept that fact. Since th time your phone call came I have been gathering courage to speak him about his resignation but could not.

On Monday I requested im to get some letterheads from office. He asked why? I in brief told him that we have to send some letter to Balkrishna.

That day evening (yesterday) when he came he called me and gave a ready typed letter. I was surprised and started reading same.
He has made a letter for appointment.

Respected Uncle he has given me same for couriering. I nither have courage to send same nor have courage to ask him to send resignation. It will  emotionally disturb him badly.I am not sure how to help in this situation.

I can only make folded hand request that pl. continue with him for this last year on record and manage the work thru another Hon. auditor. It may be wrong to do so in the eyes of law but will be loved by almighty above who will appreciate this human gesture.  Most probably he will realize his limitations soon and you may be able to officially change to another cost auditor. Pl. note that whatever fees your company pays to him will be humbly refunded to your company by me personally but for the havens sake save him from shock for this time of his health specially when my mother has just left him this year.May god shower on you all the courage to do a great service and favor  to me and my family and for a person who has never begged for a penny or favor his whole life.

I will remain whole life indebted for this kind gesture...

--
Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya





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(Real Estate, Insurance, Mutual Funds, Bonds,
Tholiya Marketing and Leasing Pvt. Ltd.
Marigold Party Hall,
Tholiya Bhavan,Next to Regency Hotel,
10th Rd., Santacruz East,
Mumbai 400055
tholiya@hotmail.com
M:9324225699



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Sunday, June 12, 2011

trial



--
Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.)
(Real Estate, Insurance, Mutual Funds, Bonds,
Tholiya Marketing and Leasing Pvt. Ltd.
Marigold Party Hall,
Tholiya Bhavan,Next to Regency Hotel,
10th Rd., Santacruz East,
Mumbai 400055
tholiya@hotmail.com
M:9324225699



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Thursday, June 9, 2011

Fwd: R u trying to change others ?????? change ur self....Alok



---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: anil <krishnabuilders@gmail.com>
Date: Fri, Jun 10, 2011 at 9:24 AM
Subject: Re: R u trying to change others ?????? change ur self....Alok
To: Alok Tholiya <atholiya@gmail.com>


many thanks


Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Fwd: [rti4empowerment] My response to Deora's on opposition to increase in rent......​.Alok



---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: Gopalkrishnan iyer <iyer_ga@yahoo.com>
Date: Tue, Jun 7, 2011 at 10:08 AM
Subject: Re: [rti4empowerment] My response to Deora's on opposition to increase in rent......​.Alok
To: Alok Tholiya <atholiya@gmail.com>
Cc: rti4empowerment@yahoogroups.com


There appear no government/administration in line with the constitutional rights of citizens in the "said to be democratic government" which became a republic in 1950! This is proved time and again and the recent crack down at Ramleela grounds further confirms it ! 

--- On Tue, 7/6/11, Alok Tholiya <atholiya@gmail.com> wrote:

From: Alok Tholiya <atholiya@gmail.com>
Subject: [rti4empowerment] My response to Deora's on opposition to increase in rent......​.Alok
To:
Date: Tuesday, 7 June, 2011, 8:57 AM

 


Deora's are themselves tenants and working to keep huge office premises for
mere Rs 200/- p.m.. If the landlord sells them the  building from that day
they will become pro landlord and antitenant. Also their constituency
consissts of tenants in large nos. So it is not sanity but vote bank that
works.

Are theses tenants getting milk,water,tv cable/ DTH ,scool
fees,bus,taxi,trains,petrol, vegetables,hospital bills etc @1950 rates? Has
Deora opposed those increase???

Are advocates ,doctors,others charging them and me the poor landlord fees of
1950???
Why double standard??

Let him donate 1000Cr and pay rent on behalf of those who cant afford like
poor get subsidies for educations / scholerships from charities/ govt but
why crush shelter providers??Let us handover to our future generation a
better place to live in.



--
Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.)
(Real Estate, Insurance, Mutual Funds, Bonds,
Tholiya Marketing and Leasing Pvt. Ltd.
Marigold Party Hall,
Tholiya Bhavan,Next to Regency Hotel,
10th Rd., Santacruz East,
Mumbai 400055
tholiya@hotmail.com
M:9324225699



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--
Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.)
(Real Estate, Insurance, Mutual Funds, Bonds,
Tholiya Marketing and Leasing Pvt. Ltd.
Marigold Party Hall,
Tholiya Bhavan,Next to Regency Hotel,
10th Rd., Santacruz East,
Mumbai 400055
tholiya@hotmail.com
M:9324225699



• Pl. fwd./ circulate this mail if you think the issues raised here needs wider audience.



• Let us make our city beautiful, disciplined and Loveable.
Let us handover to our future generation a better place to live in.



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Monday, June 6, 2011

Fwd: 06 - Manmohanji pl. give up ur Singh title and do not damage prodesthistory of our greatest brave culture of soil



---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: vkambasta . <vkambasta@sify.com>
Date: Tue, Jun 7, 2011 at 7:51 AM
Subject: Re: 06 - Manmohanji pl. give up ur Singh title and do not damage prodesthistory of our greatest brave culture of soil
To: Alok Tholiya <atholiya@gmail.com>


THE BEST COMPLIMENT Manmohan Singh ji deserves

On Mon, Jun 6, 2011 at 5:25 AM, Alok Tholiya <atholiya@gmail.com> wrote:

Atleats hijras clap but not PM. I in the name of Respected greatest son of soil Shri Guru Nankjis  request Manmohan ji to either resign as a sinh of sikh and Indian Samaj in protest or give up the singh surname which fits only to courageous,dedicated, brave Indians ( Sikhs) who have for 400 yeras laid life to save innocent childrens and women from attackers.And you are part of such attack on such innocent sleeping peaceful crowd consisting of women,children, and senior citizens. I have seen / heard sikhs dying to save women and not attacking innocent women. I doubt in your being a sikh. I call upon Akal Takth to take necessary action on Manmohanji. The roll of Manmohanji will go as a black spot in history of great Sikhs. For me if I am to be ever born again I wish to be born to a Sikh mother like of Shahid Bhagatsingh and will have nothing to do with ilks of Manmohanji who can attack innocent women,children,old,handicapped.

Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya




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Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.)
(Real Estate, Insurance, Mutual Funds, Bonds,
Tholiya Marketing and Leasing Pvt. Ltd.
Marigold Party Hall,
Tholiya Bhavan,Next to Regency Hotel,
10th Rd., Santacruz East,
Mumbai 400055
tholiya@hotmail.com
M:9324225699



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